What would happen if I tried this?
When God the Father didn't find love in the human race, He put love in the human race, in the Incarnation of His Son. Then, He found love, in his son Jesus and in all who have become a part of His body. John counsels us to go and do the same. When we don't find love in a situation, we can put love in the situation, and then we will find it!
~ Ralph Martin, The Fulfillment of All Desire: A Guidebook forthe Journey to Guide Based on the Wisdom of the Saints, page 63.