He is constructive.
He took down the ceiling fan and put up a light fixture.
Next, he turned one of these:
into one of these.
(Next up: painting.)
She is destructive:
I took apart the ceiling fan to add to my sell-as-scrap-metal pile, which was a lot of fun.
Note the box on the right full of metal bits. There was a fair bit of copper in the motor :)
I'll have to post a picture of the new light fixture....